If we survive this, it will make a hell of a story…

January 23, 2017

Banana Republic sweater (similar)
Aritzia tee (similar)
Aritzia skirt (similar)
Pierre Hardy heels (similar)
Chanel handbag
Anine Bing sunglasses
Michael Hill necklace (c/o)
Keltie Leanne Designs ring (c/o)
Strut Jewelry ring (c/o)
CC Lifestyles earrings (c/o)

It’s a strange time to be alive in North America. But then again, life is a strange thing, in any place and any age – it is the surprises, the chaos and the unpredictability, that make the human experience so interesting. I remember the age of George W. Bush. It was a fraught time; I was a teenager, so the world very often felt on the verge of ending, anyway, but the staunch Republican at the head of the United States government didn’t help matters in the slightest. The end of President Bush’s final term came in January 2009. We were in Vienna, but we chose to spend the evening in to watch the inauguration of President Obama. It felt, on that evening, like after a long period of darkness, the lights had finally come on. I realize now that I have only just begun to understand the true nature of darkness. But I believe that the most dire straits lead to the greatest triumphs, because very often, we don’t know our own strength until it is truly tested. January twentieth was a sad day for all of us – the feeling of looming dread that came over me when I learned that both the LGBTQIA and Climate Change pages had been removed from the United States Government website is one I will remember for years to come. But the truth is, so much of what we feel is wrong now – with the way women are treated, with the way minorities are treated, with the way people with disabilities are treated – has been wrong all along. The American election, with its racist, sexist, xenophobic vitriol, has simply brought it into sharper focus. January twenty-first, on the other hand, was a day of the ages; the images of people all over the world standing up and making their voices heard are a profound testament to our collective power. Ultimately, I start this week feeling inspired – while the next four years are likely to be long and tiring, with most of the battles being waged uphill, if we survive them, we will come out the other side in a much better world… and with a hell of a story to tell, too.

Nous vivons une époque curieuse en Amérique du Nord. Ceci dit, la vie est curieuse, peu importe l’époque – c’est grâce aux surprises, au chaos et à l’imprévisibilité que l’expérience humaine soit tellement intéressante. Je me rappelle l’ère de George W. Bush. C’était un âge tendu ; j’étais adolescente, donc j’avais déjà souvent l’impression que le monde allait s’écrouler, et les décisions prises par le président américain n’aidaient pas. La fin de son deuxième mandat a eu lieu au mois de janvier 2009. Nous étions à Vienne, le jour de l’inauguration du Président Obama, mais nous avons passé le soir dans l’hôtel afin de pouvoir regarder l’événement historique à la télé. Ce soir-là, j’ai eu l’impression qu’après une période sombre, la lumière brillait encore. Aujourd’hui, je me rends compte qu’à l’époque, je ne comprenais pas la nature de l’obscurité. Et cependant, je crois c’est en traversant des mauvaises passées que nous réussissons nos meilleurs triomphes, car c’est normale que nous ne connaissions pas notre courage avant qu’il soit mise à l’épreuve. Le vingt janvier, c’était un triste jour – il va falloir longtemps avant que je puisse vraiment oublier le sentiment dé d’effroi imminent qui m’a submergé lorsque j’ai appris que le gouvernement américain avait enlevé les pages LGBTQI et changement climatique de leur site internet. Mais enfin, il faut admettre tout ce que nous dénonçons maintenant – le traitement des femmes, le traitement des minorités, le traitement des personnes handicapées – a toujours été problématiques. C’est tout simplement que l’élection américaine, avec tout son racisme, son sexisme et sa xénophobie, a mis au point le fait que ces problèmes demeurent non-résolus. Le vingt-et-un janvier, pourtant, fut un jour retentissant ; les images des personnes tout autour du monde qui ont manifesté contre l’idéologie du nouveau président américain m’ont beaucoup touché. Finalement, je débute cette semaine avec un sentiment d’espoir – les quatre années qui s’en viennent seront sans doute longues et épuisantes, mais si nous nous en sortons vivants, nous nous trouverons dans un meilleur monde… avec une incroyable histoire à raconter.

11 comments so far.

11 responses to “If we survive this, it will make a hell of a story…”

  1. Trisha says:

    Thank you for this post! I am an individual struggling with my gender identity since about the second grade. It is a very difficult struggle that a lot of people can’t understand. I don’t blame them, I know putting yourself in someone else’s shoes is difficult. They want a world that makes sense to them and I disrupt their normal. But it is good to know my normal is accepted by people like you.

    Now on to the fun stuff… I love the outfit! Cute shoes and skirt. And your legs look flawless! Are you wearing tights?

    • It’s wonderful to hear from you, Trisha. I know not everyone agrees with me, but I believe alleged “normalcy” is highly overrated. The most interesting people are the ones who are unapologetically themselves, whatever that may mean. You’ll always have an ally here 🙂

      I am wearing tights in these photos – too cold to go without, sadly! But they are an inexpensive alternative to a spray tan in the winter, ha ha.

      xox,
      Cee

  2. Lisa says:

    Beautifully said and I couldn’t agree more.

  3. Courtney says:

    I’m honestly just dealing with a lot of rage these days, to be totally blunt about it. And as weird as it sounds, redirecting that even momentarily to look at a very pretty white pleated skirt is really, really helpful.

    Courtney ~ Sartorial Sidelines

  4. As you know, I could have written this as well (although my Facebook page is where I am, by far, the most vocal about politics when it comes to social media). I’ve felt a much stronger sense of anxiety and dread since the November election, and every time I see a news story since Friday there is something else that terrifies me. Since Saturday though, when the world came together to support the march in DC with marches and rallies of all shapes and sizes, I remembered that our government works for us – and that there is a massive group of human beings who are coming together to make sure this terrifying administration knows we will not back down. It’s going to be a rough four years but our voices WILL be heard.

  5. Lyddiegal says:

    The inauguration was hard to stomach, I recorded and and kept finding myself fast forwarding… if only we could do that for the next four years…These are strange new times, and while it was amazing to see so many people marching, I can only hope that we will keep it up, that the momentum wont die and everything that the last 8 years improved won’t be undone.

    Chic on the Cheap

  6. Firstly, SO lovely seeing you in that BR cardigan, it’s absolutely gorgeous on you!! <3 As for the election? While I'm reading & seeing so much about it, of course, how can you not right?! I'm also trying to do my best to stay out of the media whirlwind, it's a little overwhelming to say the least. But with you, we'll definitely come out the other side! Happiest week to you lovely!! xo

  7. Kim Alston says:

    Cee, it is scary times! He who shall not be named LOL continues to get away with the most unimaginable things! It’s unreal, but very real! Astonishing. I just try to live my life and help others whenever possible. I love your outfit. eShakti just sent me a dress with accordion pleats.
    http://www.averysweetblog.com/

  8. Lorena says:

    I could not agree more, its watching history unfold in front of our eyes…

Cee Fardoe is a thirty-something Canadian blogger who splits her time between Winnipeg and Paris. She is a voracious reader, avid tea-drinker, insatiable wanderer and fashion lover who prefers to dress in black, white and gray.

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