The Transformative Power of Travel

August 21, 2017

Winnipeg fashion blogger Cee Fardoe of Coco & Vera stands at Parc Guell in Barcelona wearing a Zara blush sweater and Steve Madden Stecy sandalsPortrait of fashion blogger Cee Fardoe of Coco & Vera looking out over Barcelona from Parc GuellStyle blogger Cee Fardoe of Coco & Vera sits on a tile bench at Parc Guell wearing Celine Audrey sunglasses and Zara jeansA tile frog fountain and blooming flowers at Parc Guell in Barcelona, captured by top travel blogger Cee Fardoe of Coco & VeraFashion blogger Cee Fardoe of Coco & Vera walks among the columns at Parc Guell wearing a Zara blush sweater and Zara boyfriend jeansCanadian fashion blogger Cee Fardoe of Coco & Vera stands at the top of Parc Guell wearing a blush Zara sweaterWinnipeg fashion blogger Cee Fardoe of Coco & Vera sits on a tile bench at Parc Guell wearing Celine Audrey sunglasses and Steve Madden Stecy sandalsZara sweater (similar)
Express tank (c/o)
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Hart + Stone ring (c/o)

“We cannot become what we want by remaining what we are.” – Max Depree

I believe travel will change your life in only the best ways. I always have, but I have become more aware of just how much travel has changed me since we came back to Winnipeg. In my hometown, the people I know seem divided into two categories; those who have been all over the world before finding their way back home and those who have never left. Everyone lives life on their own terms and makes the best choices they can, of course. But I struggle to imagine who I would be if I hadn’t seen the world. I struggle to imagine any version of myself who didn’t feel compelled to travel, to explore and adventure.

These thoughts seem all the more poignant in the wake of the events in Barcelona last week. This post was already planned, but now I can’t fathom saying anything else. I remember, before we left for Europe this year, my coworker asked me if it was truly safe to go to Paris. The question took me aback – I’ve been visiting Paris since I was a teenager and the idea of feeling unsafe there seems utterly foreign to me. But my coworker is not a traveller. All he knows of Paris is what he has seen in the news about terrorist attacks. In that moment, I flashed back to how I imagined the French capital would be a completely different world before I visited and discovered that it is a city like any other, full of people moving through their lives and trying to figure out how to be happy.

“Of course it’s safe,” I told him. “It’s as safe or unsafe as anywhere else.”

Travel teaches you that, I think; that the world is far smaller than we realise, the people in it far more similar to us than we imagine. It’s easier not to allow a terrible tragedy like the one in Barcelona to affect you, and not to feel empathy for people who experienced it first-hand, if you have never walked the streets of their home, marvelling at the beauty they are lucky to be able to take for granted.

We had the most beautiful week in Barcelona in March. We saw Parc Guell at sunrise and walked on the sand in Barceloneta. There were afternoon siestas. The city is a blissful place to be a tourist, friendly, welcoming and absolutely fascinating. I know that like Paris after the events in 2015, fewer people will visit now. Fear will hold prospective travellers back. People like my coworker will wonder if it is really a safe place. And that makes me deeply sad. To skip Barcelona, to miss visiting anywhere in the world, is to pass up an opportunity for personal growth. Travel makes us better, and let’s face it, if the last few years have taught us anything, it’s that we all need improvement.

It’s easy to find reasons not to explore new places right now. The world feels unpredictable and intolerant. But Max Depree was right – to make the world the place we want it to be, we have to understand what it is so we can change it in the right ways. Now more than ever, I think, we all need to travel.

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7 responses to “The Transformative Power of Travel”

  1. I couldn’t agree with you more. Travel is absolutely transformative in all the best ways – and it’s something we all need in our lives, now more than ever. I couldn’t imagine my life without travel. I think my 4 month solo trek across Europe when I was 19 formed me more profoundly than just about any other experience in my life and I’ve been in love with travel and what it teaches me ever since.

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  2. You can read about it. You can look at places on tv, in a magazine and talk about it. But unless you get out there, it’s not the same. To see places with your own eyes will change your life. I’ve done small trips here and there, but I definitely want to travel more.
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  3. Melanie says:

    This outfit is awsome! I like the combination and your hair is amazing :-*

    Melanie / http://www.goldzeitblog.de

  4. Lorena says:

    I am still in awe about Barcelona…
    Travel is the best education one can have, that I am certain of.

  5. LOVE those glasses and that Zara sweater is SO good Cee!! As for travel? Hopefully one day I’ll be at the place where I can freely go and explore, but for now as you know, it’s been impossible… because somehow my health always flares up terribly and I’m miserable. Having said that though, the times I have explored here & there it’s always been magical, sooo transformative and has allowed me to see the world from such an unencumbered perspective which I love!! xo

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  6. It’s funny, because I meet people all the time who can’t believe I live in the Chicago area because they’ve never been here and assume it’s dangerous. It’s true that our crime rate is high; but I would never think of this city as being unsafe to visit or live.

    I don’t travel as much now that I have children (yes, we usually take two domestic plane trips and one international as a family each year, and take many road trips – but it’s not the same), but my 20s and the first half of my 30s were spent exploring the world. And I can’t imagine it any other way. I too sometimes think of how different I would be had I taken another path. I think some of us are just born with wanderlust (for better or for worse).

  7. Lyddiegal says:

    Even when we stay put, every day we take a hundred little risks. If my brief amount of internet research is at all true you are slightly more likely to die by a falling tree branch than in a terrorist attack.

    Be that as it may, I’m not a born adventurer, and often times find myself enjoying the idea of travel more than the actual travel, which is typically full of unplanned things, missed planes, airbnb key debacles, wrong turns, misinformation. The adventurer takes those events and makes the best of them. I just get upset and make things worse. But I’ll still keep on traveling, and maybe I just haven’t found the right person to travel with yet.

Cee Fardoe is a thirty-something Canadian blogger who splits her time between Winnipeg and Paris. She is a voracious reader, avid tea-drinker, insatiable wanderer and fashion lover who prefers to dress in black, white and gray.

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