Put your Shoes On – There’s Glass Everywhere.

November 9, 2020

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On Saturday afternoon, Kamala Harris shattered one of, if not the, highest glass cielings. (Reason prevailed in the end and I am grateful, although the fact is, this is just the beginning. Americans will now need to hold their new leader accountable to make real, and desperately needed, change.) It reminded me of how much I hoped that Hillary would triumph in 2016, but how certain I was that she wouldn’t. Men, as a collective, will always vote for other men, even men they disagree with, before they will vote for women. And they did exactly that this year – they voted for Joe Biden. But a vote for Joe Biden was a vote for Kamala Harris, too. A vote for a female, black and South Asian person.

(Note: I have edited the sentence above based on a particularly vitriolic series of comments I received on this post, which you will see below. While their author fails to make a cogent argument for their case, and, if I’m honest, it’s unclear what their case actually is, I accept their premise that it is more correct to refer to Kamala Harris as black than as African American. On this, and this alone, I stand corrected.)

Two days later, there is still glass everywhere.

(Notably, it was African American women who voted for Biden and Harris in the most overwhelming numbers. Men voted, for the most part, exactly as they did in the 2016 election.)

It will be fascinating to see what the future brings for women in the wake of this historical moment. I am optimistic, but only cautiously so. After all, Canada inaugurated its first female prime minister, Kim Campbell, in 1992. We haven’t inaugurated another one since. And we’ve never elected a person of colour to the office of prime minister. In fact, we’ve never even come close.

…because the thing is, there is glass everywhere, but that only means the invisible but ever present cieling that holds women and people of colour in their place below white men is broken right now, temporarily out of the way. Cielings can be rebuilt. We rebuild them often. The act of breaking the cieling is really just the beginning. Once it’s broken, we need to continue to fight every single day to keep the metaphorical builders from putting it right back up.

So put your shoes on. There’s glass everywhere, and we need to go on breaking it every single day. The only way out is through.

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7 comments so far.

7 responses to “Put your Shoes On – There’s Glass Everywhere.”

  1. Courtney says:

    While I am beyond relieved and elated with how this has played out, I absolutely agree with you – there’s likely an inevitable backlash coming (which always seems to come whenever women make gains) and I hope things continue to forge ahead in the face of that.

    Courtney ~ Sartorial Sidelines

  2. Hensley says:

    This is bullshit she’s not African American you idiot. You’ll see once the boarders open back up and unemployment rises again how awful this will be
    Yes another stride for black to be lazy and never be held accountable. You see millions of the silent minorities not looting for causing problems but acting like true Americans

  3. Hensley says:

    I’m sure you won’t post my comment
    Cry baby
    I’m a girl that sees past the bull and I’m black black African American
    Not Jamaican and Indian –

  4. Claire says:

    I find your post so perfectly captures what we have to move through. There is glass EVERYWHERE!
    We just have to put on our shoes and keep moving forward.
    Thanks for your clear eyed view and powerful voice.
    And I love your outfit too 🙂

  5. Robyn says:

    Great post. I think Hensley is more than a bit out of line. The Washington Post refers to Kamala Harris as African American, Indian American and Asian American. She refers to herself as American. I don’t think you needed to correct anything. This is your blog, your thoughts and your opinions.

    John is out of line as well imo

    https://www.washingtonpost.com/politics/i-am-who-i-am-kamala-harris-daughter-of-indian-and-jamaican-immigrants-defines-herself-simply-as-american/2019/02/02/0b278536-24b7-11e9-ad53-824486280311_story.html

  6. Veronika says:

    Happy weekend, darling!! Your outfit is absolutely lovely and one I wish I was wearing RIGHT NOW. As for peoples opinions? In 2020, there seems to be a plethora. How unfortunate when they’re inarticulate and aggressive! I love hearing countering thoughts… but clearly, not everyone knows how to articulate themselves and be an adult. Shame! I’m with Robyn, no need to correct yourself xo

Cee Fardoe is a thirty-something Canadian blogger who splits her time between Winnipeg and Paris. She is a voracious reader, avid tea-drinker, insatiable wanderer and fashion lover who prefers to dress in black, white and gray.

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