Beauty in the Ordinary

May 25, 2021

Coco & Vera - Sezane cardigan, Zara jeans, Vintage handbagCoco & Vera - RayBan Wayfarer sunglasses, Aurate NY bracelet, Muji t-shirtCoco & Vera - Zara jeans, Rouje boots, Sezane cardiganCoco & Vera - Aurate NY bracelet, Vintage handbag, Zara jeansCoco & Vera - Sezane cardigan, Zara jeans, Rouje bootsSezane cardigan
Muji t-shirt (similar)
Zara jeans (similar)
Rouje boots (similar)
Vintage handbag (similar)
RayBan sunglasses
Aurate NY bracelet (c/o)
Linjer rings (c/o) (similar)
Mejuri earrings (similar)
Location: The Exchange District – Winnipeg, Manitoba

If I’d had a choice, Winnipeg is not where I would have spent fourteen months (and counting) of a global pandemic. We moved back to my hometown, a decidedly ordinary place in the centre of Canada with little to specifically recommend it beyond the low cost of living, so that we could travel more.

…obviously, that didn’t quite turn out the way we planned.

But we’ve made the best of it, because misery is the other option and while I love a good sarcastic joke or complaint, my approach to life is, in generally, positive. One of my colleagues affectionately calls me Jiminy Cricket because I can always offer an alternative perspective that shows how some good will ultimately come from any dismal situation. That doesn’t mean I don’t get frustrated or annoyed or sometimes want to tear my hair out – I definitely do. But I’d rather find a way to be happy than to stay stuck there.

So I’ve found ways to be happy with the ordinary place we call home. And to see the beauty in it. Because there is, and always has been, beauty in it. You have to look for it, and in some neighbourhoods, no matter where you look, you won’t find it. But it’s here. It’s not even that hard to stumble upon, particularly in places like the Exchange District. Which is why I’m always surprised when someone reaches out to me, as another person did last week, and says, “I can’t believe you take all your photos here in Winnipeg.”

Where else would I take them? This ordinary place is home and home is where we’ve all be stuck for more than a year now. If I could magically transport myself to Paris or New York just for photos, there’s no doubt I would… but I’m not actually Jiminy Cricket, that’s just a nickname. I don’t have magic powers (although some days they would really come in handy.) I just know that if you know how to look for it, you can find some beauty, somewhere, in any place, no matter how regular it is.

The truth is, there are lots of ordinary places in Paris, too. Ordinary in France looks a bit different than ordinary in Canada, but the principle remains the same. I think you could even argue that it’s ordinary places that make us appreciate beauty all the more. After all, would we even be able to recognise beauty if there were no contrast, nothing for it to distinguish itself from? We’ll never really know, since we live in a world full of stark, sometimes startling, contrasts, but the question is worthy of contemplation.

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2 responses to “Beauty in the Ordinary”

  1. Courtney says:

    The reality for me is that 99% of the places in the world that are “special” to me are so because I don’t live near them and accessing them is thus an experience and a journey – I’m sure if I could visit them whenever I liked they too would soon become as ordinary and plain to me as the streets of Edmonton.

    Courtney ~ Sartorial Sidelines

  2. Veronika says:

    Perspective is everything, and beauty is everywhere. Love your take on pandemic life, Cee! And as always, love your beautiful outfit xo

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Cee Fardoe is a thirty-something Canadian blogger who splits her time between Winnipeg and Paris. She is a voracious reader, avid tea-drinker, insatiable wanderer and fashion lover who prefers to dress in black, white and gray.

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